How to compliment at the Workplace ?

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In the world of social etiquette, compliments are important. If done right, they are effective ice breakers, morale uplifters etc. But We rarely realise this.

Paying compliments is strategically important. Because at the workplace everyone's wrapped in their own work. That's where you figure. A well placed compliment will make your valuable, noteworthy and better suited for leadership. Here are five rules of complimenting:

Rule 1
Think before you speak:
Keep the mind to mouth connection on before doling out praise. Keep it insightful, specific and empathetic. Craft your compliment around something you noticed about the person, that even he might be unaware of.
Rule 2
Time your praise
More than the right words, it is the right moment. It is all about timing. But also empathise with the person

Rule 3
Flatter, Don's flirt
Workplace compliments should stay work related. so high flying them on a funny email is not legit.

Rule 4
Complimenting the Boss
Compliment the superiors covertly. Slip the praise in while talking. The best way: praise him to others in the office, not directly.
Rule 5
Don't overdo it
The only way to use compliments to build your image is to use it sparingly. Find the right mix between too little and too much.

So everyone start from this moment and also at home to your loved ones.

Soruce: The Economic Times dt. 06.05.12 article by Nupur Amarnath.

V.Senthilnathan